
Montessori Key Principles:
Respect
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What is Respect?
Respect is the cornerstone of the entire Montessori philosophy. It is a deep, profound regard for the child as a complete person, a fellow human being worthy of dignity and courtesy.
It means speaking to them calmly, listening to their feelings, and trusting in their ability to learn and grow.
Why is it important?
When we treat children with respect, we teach them how to treat others. It builds a strong sense of trust and security, allowing them to feel safe to explore and take risks.
It also teaches them to respect themselves, their peers, and their environment. This mutual respect creates a harmonious and loving atmosphere in the home.
How to apply it at home
Speak calmly and honestly
Avoid "baby talk." Use a normal tone of voice and explain things in simple, honest terms.
Listen actively
When your child is talking, give them your full attention. Get down on their level, make eye contact, and listen to what they are saying without interrupting.
Offer choices
Respect their agency by giving them choices, even small ones, like "Do you want to wear the blue socks or the green socks?"
Respect their work
Don't interrupt a child who is concentrating. Also, be mindful not to throw away or alter their creative work without their permission.